Letters to my unborn Daughter 09/17/2014

You have always been in my thoughts. From how i am going to have a photo shoot on your first days on earth to the kind of bibs i am going to buy for you and what kind of cloth will be comfortable for you. you have occupied most of my mind and most of my plans have been sketched around when to bring you into the world.

I want to love you more than anything, but for now i like my freedom and not being responsible for anybody.  But I keep thinking about you pretty often. As to what kind of a person you will be as a kid, what kind of character are you going to have as you grow. will you be the one who will be always listening to me or the one who will trouble me every step of what i do. Will you be an introvert or an extrovert. Will you be hard working or the one make us your parents work hard for you. Will you want to be a singer or a musician or do you want to be the plain old boring engineer/ doctor. What kind of games will you like playing. Will you play any games with me?

What kind of Halloween costumes can i get you for the different years. How much college fees should we have to pay. Which school or state will you be in. How much can i love you. Will you become your daddy's little girls and take his side in arguments. Will you be as creative as me or will you be a sports person like your dad.

With the many question and my concerns to give you the best life, i also hope i can achieve everything for you or for my parents. You will probably have feelings of achievement as you grow like i do now for my parents. or you might not take the pressure as i do.

Will you be the teenager i am scared of or will you be the my teenager best friends. Will you follow the trend and have braces to align your teeth if you need or will you scare me with your tattoos and piercing? will you be the troubling daughter or will you be the daunting daughter that me and your dad are looking forward to having.

When you grow up , will want to pursue higher studies or be an Olympian. Will you dream big and try achieve it or will you not care dreaming and stick to watching TV? will you want to play around and make a lot of friends or will you want to talk the truth and lose them.


Keeping all my thoughts aside, i want to give you your space and freedom of growing up. I will have to accept you as you are. But right now i am not sure if i can be a great mom to you, but i will try.And I hope to have a wonderful daughter.

For when i am happy

For the days I am happy and I want to share some news but don't want to jinx it. Don't want to spill the beans than before they are confirmed and set in stone. I have you guys in my thoughts..

Wishes and Trials

Hi Mom & Dad,

I Miss you so much. I wish you and dad could visit me often, or i could visit you guys often. I wish i dint grow up and could be daddy's little girl.

I wish i could change many things and start over again. and do all the things your way. I wish i listened to you more. I wish i can spend more time with you guys..

There are many wishes. Don't know when and how they are gonna come true. I am tired of thinking of new ways to make my wishes come true.

Lots of Love,
Your Daughter

Happy Teacher's Day Mom and Dad

Mom & Dad,

I wish you a very Happy Teacher's day. You have been my first teachers and continue to be as i grow up. Thank you for teaching me life and to make better decisions each day.

I have learnt a lot from Mom and You, I long to be back with you guys. Hope someday i get to settle down around you guys.

With Lots of Love,
From Your Daughter.

Letter to the Best Mom

I cant remember a day i have spent without your thoughts.Neither can i remember a day without trying to reach your expectations(which i never did). I can only thank you for being there for me, in every day and night of normal days and horrific days. Standing as a pillar of courage right by me and making sure you have tried and given me the best.

On some days i would wonder and be thankful at the same time. wonder if this was not my family, where would i be today? And be thankful that this is the family that god has given me and its the best family i could ever have.

Having a mom, who guides you as a guardian and who fights with you as a friend is amazing in more ways than one. When i think about moments i have fought you, i now understand the pain you went through to convince me and i still wouldn't be convinced. The pain you went through to bring me out of my bad decisions.

As a Child i would think mom doesn't know anything and the teacher was always right(even if she was wrong). As a teenager, I would think mom doesn't understand anything. As a young adult i understand how intelligent you were and how much you tried to guard me and brother.

We are very lucky to have a mom like you.


With Lots of Love,
From Your Daughter